We focus on key areas such as setting realistic expectations, enhancing communication skills, deepening intimacy, and addressing other vital elements of a successful marriage. Recognizing that each relationship is unique, I offer personalized counseling tailored to the distinct needs of each couple. My approach ensures that you and your partner embark on your marital journey with a strengthened bond, equipped with the tools and understanding necessary for a fulfilling partnership. Whether you are exploring deep-seated values or practical day-to-day interactions, I am here to facilitate meaningful conversations that pave the way for a thriving marital life.
As a counselor specializing in enhancing individuals’ relationships with themselves, I bring a unique perspective to pre-marital guidance. My expertise lies in helping you maintain your cherished individuality—the very essence that sparked your connection—while seamlessly blending your lives to forge a fulfilling and enduring union.
I can marry you! In addition to my counseling services, I am honored to be an ordained minister through American Marriage Ministries. This role allows me to offer a unique, full-circle experience by not only preparing you for marriage through counseling but also officiating your ceremony if you choose. I am committed to personalizing your special day to reflect your unique love story and values. For more details on how I can make your wedding ceremony truly memorable, please visit my Wedding Officiant Page.
Package Options
The following are topic areas on which our pre-marital counseling will focus. You and your partner can customize your session package to fit your needs or opt for the recommended ‘Complete Connection’ package.
Session Topics: Foundation topics are marked with an asterisk *
- Communication*
- Finances*
- Conflict Resolution*
- Family Planning
- Traditions and Special Occasions
- Religious Beliefs and Differences
- Intimacy
- Household Expectations
- Lifestyle Expectations
Marital Foundations Package ( 5 Sessions)
Dive into the essentials of building a strong marital foundation with our Marital Foundations package. This basic, 5-session package covers core topics such as effective communication, conflict resolution, and financial planning. Perfect for couples seeking to solidify the fundamental aspects of their future marriage.
Includes 1 Introductory Session, 3 Foundation Topic Sessions, and a Closing Session
Union Growth Package ( 7 Sessions)
Expand beyond the basics with the Union Growth package. This offering includes everything in the Marital Foundations plus the choice of two additional elective topics. Designed for couples looking to explore specific areas of interest or concern in 7 tailored sessions.
Includes everything in the Marital Foundation Package and 2 additional Elective Topics
Complete Connection ( 10 Sessions)
Embrace the full spectrum of marital preparation with our Complete Connection package. This comprehensive option covers all core topics and allows you to select up to four electives, ensuring a deep dive into the nuances of your partnership. Ideal for couples who want to leave no stone unturned in their journey to marital success.
All inclusive plus a special Marriage Commandment Session!
*Wedding Officiant Service can be added to any package at a special rate
Communication
Essential for a healthy marriage, effective communication allows partners to express feelings and understand each other’s needs. Pre-marital counseling teaches clear expression and active listening, laying a trust and empathy foundation crucial for a lasting, fulfilling relationship.
Intimacy
Addressing intimacy helps couples build a strong, connected, and satisfying intimate relationship. Counseling on this topic covers communication about sexual needs and desires, emotional intimacy, and maintaining a healthy physical connection, Addressing these topics early helps prevent misunderstandings and fosters a strong, intimate bond that supports the overall health and longevity of the marriage.
Finances
A critical aspect of marital health, financial management involves planning, budgeting, and aligning on economic values. Pre-marital counseling facilitates open discussions about finances, helping couples set shared goals and create a unified approach to money management, thereby preventing future conflicts and establishing a stable financial foundation for the marriage.
Traditions and Special Occasions
Traditions and special occasions significantly influence a marriage’s cultural and emotional fabric. Pre-marital counseling aids couples in appreciating each other’s customs, forging new traditions that reflect both partners’ heritage. Conversations on celebrating events and anniversaries foster harmony and a shared identity, enhancing marital unity and joy.
Household Expectations
Clear expectations for household responsibilities are key to marital harmony. Pre-marital counseling helps couples discuss and fairly divide tasks like chores and cooking, preventing resentment and ensuring shared contributions. Early agreement on household roles promotes a balanced, supportive home, enhancing teamwork and partnership in the marriage.
Conflict Resolution
Healthy couples know how to effectively manage and resolve disagreements in a healthy, constructive way. By learning communication techniques, negotiation skills, and how to understand each other’s perspectives, couples can turn conflicts into opportunities for growth and deepening their relationship.
Family Planning and Management
Family planning in pre-marital counseling helps couples discuss their desires and plans regarding children. Including timing, parenting styles, and how to address potential challenges. This open dialogue ensures that both partners have aligned expectations and understandings about building their family.
Religious Beliefs and Differences
This area explores the role of religious beliefs and how to navigate differences in faith within a marriage. Couples can benefit by gaining a deeper understanding of each other’s spiritual values, leading to respect and accommodation in their shared life, and creating a unified approach to religious practices and traditions.
Lifestyle Expectations
This topic helps couples discuss and align on their daily living habits, leisure activities, work-life balance, and social life expectations. Understanding and negotiating these aspects can prevent misunderstandings and ensure that both partners’ needs and preferences are respected and integrated into their life together.
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